How to coach children and students as a parent or teacher? by Reza Hossein Borr

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Most of parents regret that their children did not become what they wanted but none of them ever try to get some training on parenting.
Coaching children is obviously the most difficult job in earth. Almost everybody in this world has been involved in rearing and coaching children. All of them tried to do their best to bring up a child of their dreams. But how many of them have succeeded? Just few. That's why I say that parenting or coaching children is the most difficult job in the world.
Nobody feels to go on a training course for rearing or coaching children. Every single teacher and every single parent and every single member of family think that they know how to coach a child. The absolute majority of them are wrong, have been wrong and will be wrong in future. My argument is very simple. If these people who are or have been in charge of children were able to coach them properly to the level that they aspired for the children to become, then why our world is in a mess from point of view morality, integrity, humanity, human rights, fairness and progress? The parents and children fail children because they do not know parenting and teaching.
Parents and teachers need more training or coaching on children than anybody else. When I look at my own children I know how much I have been wrong in many areas. Although I have been on several courses and although I have conducted extensive researches, I have come to a very clear conclusion: I could have been a much better father than I am now.
Every father that I know, every teacher that I know, every coach that I know feels like me. All of them have great wishes for children. And all of them have failed by 90 per cent in achieving their goals of parenting and coaching children.
Is this true that children are not coachable? Or is it true that the teachers are not properly trained to coach children to become the kind of the children that the teachers want or the parents what want? While every parent and every teacher tries the best to bring the best in the children, why the absolute majority of them fail in the absolute majority of cases?
When some of the children become great people when they grow up, the parents and teachers just would not believe that. Neither the teachers nor the parents were able to predict that the kind of child that they witnessed would have the potentials or the commitment for success to become the person he is.
None of the teachers of Churchill, neither his parents predicted what he could be. There is no way that the parents of Bill Clinton or Hillary Clinton ever thought that their children would be what they became. These are exceptional people that have gone through amazing conditions and somehow have managed to become what they have become.
Some of the parents are amazed why their children have failed to become what the parents aspired. Some of the teachers and parents are amazed why children or students became much better than what they predicted. The fact is that rearing children, training and teaching children are very difficult jobs. As I mentioned the most difficult job in the world is to train and teach a child and set a goal for him to become what you set for him.
Reza Hossein Borr is an NLP Master Trainer and a leadership consultant and the creator of 150 CDs and 14 Change management models. He is also the author of Manual Success, Manual of Coaching and Mentoring, Motivational Stories that Can Change Your Life, and a New Vision for the Islamic World. He can be contacted by email: sarawani@aol.com http://www.rezaaa.com
About the Author
Reza Hossein Borr is an NLP Master Trainer and a leadership consultant and the creator of 150 CDs and 14 Change management models. He is also the author of Manual Success, Manual of Coaching and Mentoring, Motivational Stories that Can Change Your Life, and a New Vision for the Islamic World. He can be contacted by email: sarawani@aol.com http://www.rezaaa.com
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