Deos Fertility Treatment Work Always?

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Does Fertility Treatment Work Always?

Author: Michael Hehn
Date posted: Nov 20, 2008
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It can take some time to recuperate both physically and emotionally if the fertility treatment you're using doesn't work and you have to try over again. Frequently if you have built up your hopes and gone through all the stress of intervention it can affect you terribly if it is unsuccessful. Many experts suggest that you wait for a couple of months before trying once more, which gives you a break from the stress of treatment and a chance for your body to regain strength.

You may find that a new intervention method will give you a greater chance of success and that they are other things you can do to better the state of affairs but speak to your gynecologist about this first. Visiting a counselor can also help you to talk through your feelings.

It is an regrettable fact but many embryos are lost during a pregnancy through miscarriage whether by natural becoming pregnant or assisted. Under normal conditions you may just think you were experiencing a late menstrual cycle as opposed to a spontaneous abortion. When you are receiving fertility intervention however, you are more acutely conscious of the fact that a fertilized egg located inside you hasn't implanted and that you have miscarried.

At some stage you may decide that you no longer want to try further fertility treatment whether it is after your first try or 10th. The grounds behind this decision to cease fertility intervention may be financial or emotional and it might also be because your consultant believes there is little chance of conception in the foreseeable future. Alternatively, you may just believe that enough is enough and you just want to get on with your life.

The decision to cease must be yours though, and not taken because there was pressing from outside that made you feel that you haven't tried hard enough or that you have not been successful. Of course, it need not mean giving up all hope of having children - you may wish to research the possibility of other alternatives, such as adopting and fostering. The only decision that matters is the one that you ultimately make, fits your circumstances and your feelings. It's often helpful to talk to a counselor, or to other people who have been in a similar state of affairs, as you come to the decision about how you can best move on. There are organisations which can provide help for individuals who are exploring what life without kids has to offer.

Remember to take it a step at a time and don't let fear stop you whether it's to continue with intervention or not. It is easy to believe that everyone close to you will understand what you are going through but this is not always the case and oftentimes people close to you can say the wrong things by chance and not even know that they have hurt your feelings. Only you can select a way of handling with the state of affairs but hopefully in such a way that they will get the message that they have hurt you and nor really thought about your feelings.




Michael Hehn is a specialist in infertility and pregnancy. If you want more information about infertility and pregnancy, visit infertility and pregnancy.